Muslimin and Muslimat

With the name of Allah, The Most Gracious and Merciful =)

End of Ramadhan is just around the corner. so sad to be left by this holy month. This month taught me a lot about life.It taught me to appreciate and so on. Ramadhan for this year is very meaningful than my ramadhan before. I keep on thinking about many things especially about my beloved ISLAM and myself.

Back to the central issue, about muslimin and muslimat!
Have you ever notice that women and man would sit separately in any religious event such as Tilawah al-Quran , Isra' Mi'raj ceremony and many more?

This is what I really love about our muslimin and muslimat

However, when it comes to any other event that is not religious event...., all gone.? :'( .

For example, when we are having a retirement ceremony, any competition event, any performance event, why can't we stay with our holy culture? Why should men and women mix up together. ? Are we afraid of acknowledging what Allah ask us to do? Is it too hard to do this ? tepuk dada, tanya iman.. :)

Fruits and Personality?

 We are what we eat, what we read and what we think!

I love this quotation! actually, I've found out a fact from one of the magazines that i read few years ago, but now I'll share it with you guys. I don't really know how true is it.It was all about how your favourite fruits may discover who you really are. so, let's check it out!

1) Orange 
   
=>It speaks of a person who has enduring patience and willpower
=>Like to do things slowly but every thoroughly and are completely undaunted  by hard work
=> Tend to be shy , but are reliable and trustworthy friend
=> you avoid conflict with all cost.
* You select your partner with care and you love with all your heart



2) Apple










@You are extravagant, impulsive and outspoken person.
@ a bit of a temper.
@You may not the best organizer yourself, but you make a good team leader and are good at moving things forward.
@ you can take quick action in most actions.
@you enjoy travel immensely
@You ooze with  charm when you are with your partner
@You have an enthusiasm for life, unmatched by most


3)Banannnnnaa!


You are softie~
Loving, gentle, warm and sympathetic by nature is the banana lover.
=You often lack of self-confidence and are quite timid by nature.
=people often take advantage of your sweet temperedness, and sheer vulnerability to a situation .
= You adore your partner in every each way , both for their mental and physical beauty!
= Because of the way you are, your relationship is always very much in harmony.

4)Mango
 

A mango lover is a personality to be reckoned with, quite often it's a person who has quite fixed ideas, and influencing you is not an easy task .
You tend to be an extremist with strong likes and dislikes , and at times even like to control a situation.
You enjoy getting involved in something that present mental challenge . Strong as you may be, you are like a kitten when you are with your partner.
You accommodate the love of your life , and make up for all the strong will everywhere.

5) Cherry


=>Life is not always as sweet for you.
=>You often face ups downs , particularly professionally, and find that you make small sums of  money ,instead of a lump sum .
=>You have a fertile imagination  and are often involved in creative pursuits.
=>You are sincere and loyal partner, but find that expressing your feeling is not very easy.
=> Your home is your heaven , and you love nothing than being surrounded by close family and your beloved sweetheart.

6) Black grapes


*You are a polite person in general , but do have quick flare -ups of temper that cool down just as quickly.
*You enjoy beauty in all forms including beautiful people.
*You are very popular because of your warm, gregarious nature
*You have a zest for life, you enjoy everything you do,right from the way you dress, to your style and your day-to-day life.
*Your partner must share your zeal and zing for life to enjoy all you have to offer!

7) Pear

If you put your mind to something you can do it successfully , but by and large you tend to be fickle and have trouble completing a task with the enthusiasm you started it with.
You need to know the result of your efforts almost immediately.
you enjoy mental stimulation and and love to get into a good discussion

8) Pineapple


You are quick to decide and even quicker to act.
* Brave in making career changes
*Have exceptional organizing abilities and are undaunted by the size of the task at hand.
You tend to be self-reliant , sincere and honest in your dealings with others . Though you don't often make friends very quickly , once you do, it is for life
* You rarely , if ever, make romantic overtures .
*Your partner is often impressed by your sterling quality but disappointed in your ability to show affection.


Wargggghhh... which one are you??? so, once you tell your favourite fruits, you are telling who you are!

p/s: yOu are what you eat, what you say, and what you think

Don't you even touch her heart

With the name of Allah, The Most Merciful =)

It is a truth universally aknowledged , that a single man in possession of a good fortune , must be in want  of a wife

I love this famous sentence by Jane Austen that has unwrap story between this two different creature:
  Man and Woman.




In Islam, men and women have their own responsibilities in this world. We are created and sent to this world just for a while to pay obeisance towards our GOD, ALLAH. However, we are not alone. Allah has promised that every one of us would have our own partner that came from our own sort. 


Nevertheless, sometimes , because of a 'soul mate', we forget our responsibilities. in facebook, many of teenagers come out with their sayings about 'Love' , 'man' 'woman' 'marriage' 'soulmate' as their status. 
Here I give out my opinion not to say that i'm good, but this is because i concern about my 'family' in Islam. 


Dear my beloved family (men and women),


We live not only for human love. One day, you'll absolutely know who is your soulmate , when the time is coming. Don't keep asking who is a girl/man that will be yours because, as the time is not coming yet, It's Allah secret. Before the time comes,let us use our time remembering HIM, talk about HIM, do everything for HIM. Not keep on dreaming.


Dear my friends,
Don't worry, He has someone special just for you, so you don't have to keep on listing your dream girl/man. Because all the list is useless. Allah knows who is the best for us.  And He knows what we deserve for.

And among Allah's sign is this: that He created for you spouses from among yourselves so that you might find rest in them ; and He has set between you love and compassion. .Truly there are signs  in this for people who reflect.(Quran, 20:21)

 Dear my dear muslimin and muslimat,
Please don't cry over a man who is not your husband/wife. s/He is not deserve for your tears. Don't watse your sweet words over a girl that is not yet be your wife. Be patient my friends, because one day, someone will come and she/he will be yours and you deserve for those sweet words, poem, tears, and everything.For now, keep all that for your future spouse. She would be very sad and jealous if she knows that you have shared sweet moments and loves with someone else in your past.Be patient.be patient. <3

Dear buddy,
Fill up yourselves, your heart and soul with knowledge before you find love and before you want to chase over a woman. Because marriage is not only about love but also about responsibilities that needs your commitment and KNOWLEDGE.

if you are not ready outside and inside, don't you try to approach woman/man.. 'Don't you even touch her heart' . Once you have fall in love, it'll be hard for you to handle your emotion.It would be hard for you to stay away. and it'll be very hurting when you have to leave her as Islam never allow us to have any relationship other than marriage. so, beware with your heart.CLOSE it except for your wife/husband.




P/S: let us keep this love for our husband/wife. 


Alhamdulillah,

marissa.abdullah@gmail.com
http://freedomwithlovetouch.blogspot.com/

Continuation of Women or girl?

With the Name of Allah, The Most Merciful =)
Oke guys,as I've promised before. I'LL share  about the differences between a GIRL and WOMAN..

I'm sure if I say , a 'girl', you will imagine a 10 year old girl wearing a pink dress with her barbie doll in the playground or maybe in the shopping mall. hey dudes!


it's probably not :P

Here are some of the characteristic of a girl in MY view.^^

(1) a girl wants everything when she goes to a shopping mall without thinking about any consequences or consideration. Shoes, dress, new bag and etc?? WOW, it's cool for them

but a WOMAN,

will think twice? thrice ?? and so many times whenever she go out for a shopping.
She would be able to differentiate between necessity and desires.



(2) a girl will make sure that she would look perfect in front of her boyfriend , everywhere especially in the campus or school. Even going to 'Pasar Malam', she would dressed her self up like a Primadona. It's clearly shows that she still fell not confident to be HERSELF infront of people.

but a WOMAN,

will alwaysssssss be confident and accept her weaknesses. She knows that nobody is perfect, so she would never fear of being HRSELF infront everybody , even her Sweetheart!


(3) a girl will cry and cry and stop trying when she "fall" down. Life can't goes on when she lost something. She will blame everybody when she failed.

but, a WOMAN,

will keep on smiling whenever she's having a conflict. She would wake up again and again, DOESN'T MATTER HOW MANY TIMES SHE FALL. She will cry , but once she wake up, she will stroke her tears and prove to the world that she never give up!

Last but not least,

a girl still confuse about herself, sometimes she do not know how precious she is. That's why they tend to do any thing that they think is right for them.

while a WOMAN,


She will always appreciate herself  no matter what. She knows that nobody deserves to see her aurat except for her husband and family. ^^


 
aiyoooo, i'm tired already..

so, the conclusion is..

a girl is not mature enough compare to woman. Don't ask why some of us still being a girl though we are already 2o/21/20++++. Haha, every woman have their "girlish" in themselves. To be a true woman, we have to be optimist and accept for whoever we are.

p/s: A woman is a girl, but a girl is not a woman <3


Alhamdulillah,

marissa.abdullah@gmail.com
http://freedomwithlovetouch.blogspot.com/

Girl 0r Woman?

With The name of ALLAH the most Merciful.=)

Confuse with the title for this entry? hehe, i'm going to break it down!

I got this question from one of my lecturers when she suddenly asked me,
" do you prefer to be addressed as a girl or woman?"

I was kept on silent and look at her. haha,I can't even answer her question because i was also confused. Then , I just smile and said, "WOMAN" . She was just smile and said, "OK".

However, I was kept on thinking about her question and asked myself, am I a girl or a woman?
so guys, what is actually the differences of 'girl' and 'woman' ???

Later i'll tell you k! xoxo.

Alhamdulillah,

marissa.abdullah@gmail.com
http://freedomwithlovetouch.blogspot.com/

In the name of Allah The Most Gracious and Most Merciful

She vs He?

She cries when she sad vs He keeps silent when he sad

She Nags when she angry vs He keeps silent when he upset

She says 'I miss you' vs He gives a bunch of flower when he  miss her

She will stop reading a novel when he calls vs He will says ' I've work to do dear" when he plays DOTA

She will say he is my best friend vs he will says I like her

SHE and HE = Born differently

that's a way boy and girl are different

*p/S: we are different under the same roof.

In the name of Allah The Most Gracious and Merciful

Hye peeps! Just now my little sister was crying over RM 1 . haha, she was hugging me and telling me that she want RM 1 that my brother has taken away from her. 

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*It's not that I'm going to shout about my little sis, 

I'm going to shout about Why money can makes people getting crazy

 Money is not everything, but everything need money? 

*oh yea?? Hurrrrrrrm,,, let us check it out!

1.even to use a toilet, you have to pay.

2.How to buy a food without money?

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3.education also need money dude

4. want to be famousss and beautifOOL?..oh my Gucci! 

(* need money :P)

5. want to be a bride? oh dear, you also need money <3

*some people say, "hey, money is not everything, love is most important"

BUT.........

% to buy a rose for your beloved one, You need MONEY

% to get marry, You need MONEY

% after get married, you have to eat, to BEAR your beloved CHILDREN, 

give them education. pay bills and etc.

*It's all because love is most important ,but you still need MONEY

p/s: Don't be crazy because of money, lets money get crazy because of you. xoxo

ASN & ASB ?

in the name of Allah the Most Gracious and Most Merciful

Hye dudes, have you invested in ASN or ASB before? As for myself, yes I do. I was investing about RM 10 hehehe..Before this I also have a doubt about the position of this investment in Shari'ah. Some people says that it is Haram, but some people says it Halal. So, recently the Mufti Selangor has answered this hesitation

.

*So, we as the consumer should be wise in making a decision.

P/s: lets invest our money in Tabung Haji.hehehehe

What Girls hate about boys/ men

With the name of ALLAH the Most Merciful. =)

have you ever feel so So so irritating to any guy that you ever met before? So, what are the parts that a girl hate most about a guy?? Lets check it out!

1. When a guy tell her that he has fall in love with her,besides they just know 2 days ago. 

2.When a guy call her sayang ,besides they just know each other through Facebook and  never met before. (* how desperate is this kind of guy)

3. When a guy too arrogant and proud of himself. For example when a boy says this: "I've 2 Ferrari cars with a bungalow, by the way, for you information,  I am the hottest guy in my college". (*surely 1 week after that, the girl will ask for a break )

4. When a guy doesn't care about his family especially his mother. (*It shows that he is not a responsible man)

5.When a guy get angry and don't talk to his girlfriend without any reason. ( * I don't think a guy having PMS too :P)

6. When a guy talks too much .(*it's okay for a girl, but NOT for a man)

7. Smoking.Drunkard.Drug addicts. (*it's not cool man)

8.Hypocrite. Being sooooo romantic infront of a girl, but being soooo rude towards his friends and family.

 (*you better jump from the Twin Tower :P)

9. Lazy. Sleep in the lecture and spend much of his time on bed..

10.Ego. When a guy can't even say 'SORRY' when he accidentally struck with someone.

(* not gentlemen dude)

p/s:nobody is perfect in this world, so for girls, be wise and don't be too demanding oK? 

FREEDOM

In the name of ALLAH the Most Merciful =)

        Everybody has their own definition of freedom. As a young woman, with this courage, I am so inspired with Maher Zain song entitled freedom . Freedom is very subjective. There is some people outside dreaming of free from their work, their family maybe? or maybe they want to be free of all burdens that they have to bear. How about those who are jailed in the prison? Doesn't matter weather it is because of their mistakes or they are persecuted by the other party. The question is, what is freedom all about?

        I have watched  a Malay movie that conveys the story about Juvenile students. " Prison is built only for your physical not for your mind" , this quote really makes sense for those who still wondering what is the meaning of freedom. Freedom starts by your mind. You will only  able to slip off the 'prison' if you are able to slip off your narrow thinking.

*this is not a politics propaganda okey,

        Palestinian are now fight for their rights. We can see they are languished physically and mentally. Here, in Malaysia, we are free of war. BUT, in the aspects of courageous, MIND SET, we are NOT FREE. We are still trapped in our own 'prison'.  We are still thinking about 'my own sake , not for a 'Malaysian sake'. We are still fight for 'my rights', not for 'MALAYSIAN rights'. In politics, we are still fight for 'our party' , not for our 'Country' .  'MENTALITY FREEDOM' . That's what I try to convey in this shout. If I can ask the politicians out there, what is actually  their mission ? Yes, they are different of parties, they try to persuade people to vote them. They want to develop the country. They want the best for this country ( not really sure) , so why can't they unite for the sake of Malaysia? for the sake of Peace? In order to persuade people for voting certain party, why can't they just be honest in their words, be wise, without say bad things about the other party or the opponents? We are not FREE. we are jailed by our mentality, By our desire.

      Hey Malaysian out there, we should not stand still , look, wait, sit back and relax. We can be as what we want, if we starts to give a chance for ourselves to CHANGE, TRANSFORM. From now own, let us give opinion, not condemn. Let us develop our performance, not say nasty thing about others at the back. Put up efforts and move towards the FREEDOM.  I write this shout because I do Love MALAYSIA.

p/s: doesn't matter if u are PAS, PKR, DAP, BN, or whatever, the thing is, WE ARE MALAYSIAN.

Not the Beginning

Speaking through writing is not the beginning nor the last medium for people who can't stop thinking, and generating their ideas. This blog is inspired by an ordinary woman with her own ideas in order to be free in her own world Called Marissa Abdullah. Instead of 'blog', I feel much free to call it as SHOUT.

 This shout has no specification, it just really free with any thinking or feeling. Be free in your own words to feel free in your own world. That's Marissa is. Give me your hand if we be friend!